Since a couple of years ago I am completely alone. All alone in my journey. I couldn't share my feelings with anyone. I couldn't show my fear to anyone. I had lost contacts or better say touch with almost all of my friends.
And I must say it was my toughest journey , a journey towards endless fear, a journey towards a improved version of mine and a journey struggling with my own health. I was feeling alone.
I realized that Being Alone has it all. Most of the time I started thinking with the feeling of being aloof and ended with the feeling of a beautiful solitude that if expressed would go in vain. Mind you, the feeling of being alone is beautiful in itself. If you give a deep penetration to it, you 'll find all joy and happiness in it.
When you express your feelings to someone , your feelings are not yours anymore. You have lost its mastery. You have judged them already. But if you keep them to yourself, they are in full control of you. You can turn them any way. And the power of those “Not so expressed” feelings gives you the immense strength and beauty of life. Just try to feel it and find happiness in it.
Presently, due to my work and social aspects, again I have build up a new friend circle and got in touch with old ones. But that feeling of “Happiness of a aloof” is missing. The fun and joy that I am having now is completely different from that.
So, enjoy your loneliness and never ever try to express it.
A few days ago someone very special to me told me "you are an authentic human being". I've been thinking about that and how do I feel because of my authenticity.
There are so many fake people because people have forgotten who they really are. People just can’t help but to give themselves away. I believe that society is going through an identity crisis. Not just the traditional who-am-I-really? crisis of adolescence and post-adolescence, but an identity crisis based on the fluidity of identity in a wired/wireless world, where we often present only a tiny part of who we are at any one time. Not just the Facebook world where “friend” means “I tapped my phone’screen a couple of times while your name was on it,” but a world in which, for example, distance learning means that the connection between you and the person tasked with educating you is reduced to tapping a screen.
What that means to me is that the barriers to being inauthentic have melted away. People are “fake” because we permit it.
For me being a real or authentic is win the challenge against myself, a challenge against peer pressure,
A real person doesn't pay attention to the ignorance, instead he gives attention to those willing to listen and understand. A real person never loses, keeps trying. A real person understands that attitude and reaction can make all the difference. A real person understands patience does not mean waiting around, it means to take initiative first. A real person is one who believes in himself regardless of anyone who puts him down. A real person is one who knows better, by being the bigger person. A real person takes care of themselves, as well as others when he is capable of it. A real person substitutes anger with prayer. A real person will not judge you for your appearance. A real person understands the difference between intention and motive. A real person is someone who shines daily because of his faith. A real person is anybody who isn't afraid to be themselves at any given time.
It’s not easy being an authentic person and it takes courage to stand up for yourself and for your own wants and needs. To follow your inner voice and hearts desires can be an uphill battle. Let alone the societal and religious dogmas that have been thrust upon us. Being rejected for your own family.
I don’t pay attention to gossip or drama, I am comfortable being alone, I trust my gut and listen to my instincts, I follow my heart no matter how far, how crazy and how much it may hurt. I make my own path, I will never tell you what you want to hear, just because you want to hear it. I speak my mind. I try to respond to internal expectations, I can admit my faults. Aunthentic people are not judgmental of others. Being honest about their own faults and embracing individuality and differences leads genuine people to be less judgmental and more accepting of the people around them.
Just try guys... BE REAL
Live Life Happy: Be authentic. Speak sincerely. Listen thoughtfully. Act compassionately and love. Always love. What we bring to life becomes our life.
"My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me." H.F
True Friendship Isn't About Being Inseparable – It's Being Separated & Nothing Changes...
Actually, I think it's the opposite. We know each other so well there isn't anything left to say. Sometimes it's nice just sitting here with you all, thinking. It's only best friends who can be comfortable with silence, wouldn't you say? Ten minutes with a genuine friend is better than years spent with anyone less.
When you have nothing, you will, obviously, have quite a few needs. How patiently can you wait for that which you need? Can you, or do you get agitated and make a fuss?
The second situation in the quote is what your attitude is when you have everything. When you have everything, you need nothing, and by extension, no one. This is a test of how you treat people when you don’t have any need to be kind or helpful. Will you be nice, or will you be an obnoxious (something)?
If being sane is thinking there's something wrong with being different....I'd rather be completely fucking mental... Without pain, there would be no suffering, without suffering we would never learn from our mistakes. A.J
Las personas auto destructivas suelen rehuir a todas las experiencias positivas y placenteras que les ofrece la vida. Esto las lleva a generar situaciones y relaciones interpersonales caóticas y en las que suele haber sufrimiento. Son propensos a auto-sacrificarse para ayudar a otras personas y a aguanta sin rebelarse ante el abuso psicológico, físico o sexual que otras personas les infligen.
Hay dos tipos de personas que se vinculan con nosotros a lo largo de nuestra vida y las personas autodestructivas tienden a escoger a las personas y situaciones que dan lugar a la decepción, el fracaso, o maltrato, incluso cuando existen claramente mejores opciones disponibles.
Mas simple aun, personas que son la excusa perfecta para seguir con el comportamiento autodestructivo y personas que nos ofrecen una vida llena de amor, paz, serenidad, cuidado, protección, etc. Te agradezco por huir de mi vida porque casi me equivoco y elijo una vez mas lo auto destructivo o sea vos y no a quien representa la vida misma, me ama incondicionalmente y me inspira a seguir luchando.
All we can do is be who we are All we can do is be where we are All we can really do is be So be intense with me... Whatever you do ... do it intense!!!
Good morning, on 7 July Even in bed my ideas yearn towards you, my Immortal Beloved, here and there joyfully, then again sadly, awaiting from Fate, whether it will listen to us. I can only live, either altogether with you or not at all. Yes, I have determined to wander about for so long far away, until I can fly into your arms and call myself quite at home with you, can send my soul enveloped by yours into the realm of spirits — yes, I regret, it must be. You will get over it all the more as you know my faithfulness to you; never another one can own my heart, never — never! O God, why must one go away from what one loves so, and yet my life in W. as it is now is a miserable life. Your love made me the happiest and unhappiest at the same time. At my actual age I should need some continuity, sameness of life — can that exist under our circumstances? Angel, I just hear that the post goes out every day — and must close therefore, so that you get the L. at once. Be calm — love me — today — yesterday. What longing in tears for you — You — my Life — my All — farewell. Oh, go on loving me — never doubt the faithfullest heart Of your beloved L Ever thine. Ever mine. Ever ours.
