Christina Aguilera - Fall In Line ft. Demi Lovato Live on "Billboard Mus...

Little girls

Listen closely

'Cause no one told me

But you deserve to know

That in this world

You are not beholden

You do not owe them

Your body and your soul

All the youth in the world will not save you from growing older, and

All the truth in the girl is too precious to be stolen from her

It's just the way it is

And maybe it's never gonna change

But I got a mind to show my strength

And I got a right to speak my mind

And I'm gonna pay for this

They're gonna burn me at the stake

But I got a fire in my veins

I wasn't made to fall in line

No, I wasn't made to fall in line (no-ooh)

Show some skin

Make him want you

Cus God forbid you

Know your own way home

Ask yourself

Why it matters

Who it flatters

You're more than flesh and bones

All the youth in the world will not save you from growing older, and

All the truth in the girl is too precious to be stolen from her

It's just the way it is

And maybe it's never gonna change

But I got a mind to show my strength (my strength)

And I got a right to speak my mind

And I'm gonna pay for this (pay, pay)

They're gonna burn me at the stake (stake)

But I got a fire in my veins (veins)

I wasn't made to fall in line (line)

No, I wasn't made to fall in line (No one is made to fall in line)

Yea, two, three

Right, two, three

Shut your mouth

Stick your ass out for me

March, two, three

Two, three

Who told you

You're allowed to think

Yea, two, three

Right, two, three

Shut your mouth

Stick your ass out for me

March, two, three

Two, three

Who told you

You're allowed to think

It's just the way it is

And maybe it's never gonna change

But I got a mind to show my strength

And I got a right to speak my mind

And I'm gonna pay for this

They're gonna burn me at the stake

But I got a fire in my veins

I wasn't made to fall in line

I got a fire in my veins

I'm never gonna fall in line

Yea, two, three

Right, two, three

Shut your mouth

Stick your ass out for me

March, two, three

Two, three

Who told you

You're allowed to think

Stuck between caring and not caring at all.

Caring too much is worse than not caring at all. By not setting boundaries and reasonable priorities, you enable others to not grow and weaken yourself. It can go deeper than mere people pleasing. Spiritually and mentally withering away because you gave all your love and resources to another, may seem like a noble suffering.

In truth it isn't, you fill the need that is supposed to motivate that person to create new resources and means of caring for themselves. Manipulative and aggressive personalities are drawn to people who care too much, painting them as targets. Below we have summarized some traits of people who care an unhealthy amount and ways to fix that trait.

You And Your Needs Are Never A Priority

You are the kind of person to make everyone else gets a plate before you serve yourself. This means that you don't always get a plate of food for yourself. You constantly make sure everyone around you has what they need to succeed, but never listen to your own needs for success. You are so busy making sure everyone feels empowered and loved your own needs get pushed to the side. Your own mental and spiritual health can be jeopardized.

Solution:

It isn't greedy for you to give yourself priority. If you are starving, you can't work to feed another person. You have to help yourself and maintain your own health and opportunities to grow. If you aren't moving forward and nurturing yourself, you will have limited resources to share with others. To help others YOU MUST HELP YOURSELF.

You Fear The Opinions And Rejections Of Others

You are motivated by the opinions of others. You don't want to get left behind so you make yourself valuable. You don't wish to cross anyone so you keep your opinions to yourself. You don't take the lead even when it would be better for all involved.

Solution:

The people who are so selfish and short sighted to only keep around people who are only useful to them are not capable of creating relationships that are lasting. No matter how helpful you are, you will be replaced eventually, so be genuine and seek out people who truly appreciate you.

Needy, Desperate, Dependent People Are Naturally Attracted To You

People are drawn to what they seek. Needy people know you will be willing to tolerate and feed them attention. Dependent individuals seek out someone who will provide them a support system. Basically you are a magnet for anyone who has not worked to complete their personality. They are not looking to become better people, they want to find a better support structure to protect and feed them. They will drain and detract resources and energy from you until there is nothing left.

Solution:

Create boundaries for yourself and make them clear to others. Do not compromise them for anyone. You have drawn these lines for reasons important to you. It is not fair for anyone to try to compromise your self respect.

You Are Often Taken For Granted

People walk all over you, take what is yours and disrespect you. People perceive your kindness for weakness.

Solution:

Distance yourself from insincere, abusive people. You have to feel empowered to grow and flourish. You can't do this while under someone's boot. Create boundaries that you stand by, never compromise your self love or respect and push any one who isn't productive and genuine from your life

No matter where you go, there you are

Running is the easiest solution to every problem. The capability of choosing this option on the basis of problem defines your personality...

FINALLY I AM SAVED

 If nothing saves us from death, at least love should save us from life...

I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. Took me 46 years, I was okay with being alive... Don’t be afraid of losing someone who doesn’t feel lucky to have you.....One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself. #WhiteHelmets

Christina Novelli - Concrete Angel [Acoustic]

Let me breath you in, and break the words in your mouth, 

Inside you´re shivering, the silence shouts so loud. 

I just want to, I just want to stay around, 

While my heart beats I promise I won't let you down.

If you keep building these walls, 

Brick by brick towers so tall, 

Soon I won't see you at all, 

Till the concrete angel falls.

I knew who you were from the start,

But now I don't know who you are, 

Soon there'll be nothing at all, 

Till the concrete angel falls.

If I'm somewhere else it doesn't mean that I don't see,

That you don't trust yourself, that's why you don't trust me. 

It makes me crazy,

When you're crazy, you, you don't speak.

You think you know me, 

But what you know is just skin deep.

If you keep building these walls,

Brick by brick towers so tall,

Soon I won't see you at all,

Till the concrete angel falls.

I knew who you were from the start,

But now I don't know who you are,

Soon there'll be nothing at all,

Till the concrete angel falls.

It's twisting your mind,

I'm not getting through, 

Cause I don't see it like you do,

There's nothing to find, 

You've got no excuse, 

I'm over getting over you,

I'm over getting over you, 

Cause I don't see it like you do,

I'm over getting over you. 

I'm over getting over you.

If you keep building these walls,

Brick by brick towers so tall,

Soon I won't see you at all,

Till the concrete angel falls.

I knew who you were from the start,

But now I don't know who you are,

Soon there'll be nothing at all,

Till the concrete angel falls.

BE KIND

“Be kind to others; show that you care. But by being kind I don’t mean that you get used, that you get trampled all over and in the end there’s not very much left of your original self. Set limits and be firm about them. You can be pleasant, kind, caring and all that yet have your own space. Never look down on someone, give them the respect they deserve. How you treat others, especially those who are less fortunate or can’t repay, defines you and shows your true character.”  - Latika Teotia

Ake ake kla kaha arojanui

U2 - Love Is Bigger Than Anything In Its Way

#ProudToBeGay

The door is open to go through
If I could I would come, too
But the path is made by you
As you're walking start singing and stop talking
Oh, if I could hear myself when I say
(Oh love) love is bigger than anything in its way
So young to be the words of your own song
I know the rage in you is strong
Write a world where we can belong
To each other and sing it like no other
Oh, if I could hear myself when I say
(Oh love) love is bigger than anything in its way
If the moonlight caught you crying on Killiney Bay
Oh, sing your song
Let your song be sung
If you listen you can hear the silence say
"When you think you're done
You've just begun"
Love is bigger than anything in its way

Just try to do the same....

I don't care whether people like me or dislike me. I'm not on earth to win a popularity contest. I'm here to be the best human being I possibly can be.

Hell is real

i know there is a heaven because hell is real...

PRAY FOR SYRIA

“I’ve been told that I cannot change shit, so I might as well stop torturing myself. My emotions are ridiculed and branded as childish. I have been told that the world has given up on my people. I have been told, and realise that on many occasions, I myself am viewed as an outcast by some of those suffering. I’ve been confronted and my answer is always the same: I care even in my most fucked-up moments. I care even when gates of shit pour open to drown me; I care because I am a citizen of the world.”